Terry Crews and Rebecca King-Crews are marking a significant milestone as they celebrate 35 years of marriage on Monday, July 29. The couple, who first met during their college years, recently opened up to PEOPLE about the secrets behind their enduring relationship and their plans for the special occasion.
Key to a Lasting Relationship
At Entertainment Weekly’s Annual Comic-Con Bash on July 27, Terry, 55, shared insights into the foundation of their long-lasting love. “The advice I always give is that you can’t love someone and control them at the same time. And I think that’s been the key,” Terry explained. Reflecting on their early years, he noted that many issues arose not from a lack of love but from attempts to control.
Rebecca, 58, supported her husband’s sentiments, adding, “My advice is that the key principle in any relationship is forgiveness.” She emphasized that holding grudges can undermine a relationship, highlighting the importance of moving past conflicts and embracing forgiveness.
Overcoming Challenges
The couple’s journey has not been without its challenges. Terry revealed that their relationship faced a significant crisis early on, stating, “We almost broke up and that was the thing.” However, once they both learned the importance of love without control and embraced forgiveness, their relationship evolved into something even stronger.
Anniversary Celebrations
For their 35th wedding anniversary, Terry and Rebecca have planned a romantic dinner together. Terry mentioned their busy schedule, which included recent trips to Hawaii and Santa Barbara, and his upcoming visit to the Olympics in Paris. Despite their hectic lives, they are making time for each other and planning a more elaborate celebration in the fall, including a big soirée.
Reflecting on their past anniversary celebrations, the couple previously hosted a star-studded bash for their 30th anniversary in 2019 at the Four Seasons in Beverly Hills, with notable guests such as Olivia Munn and Stevie Wonder.
Family and Career Highlights
Terry and Rebecca, who share five children, have navigated numerous life changes together, from raising their kids to managing Terry’s NFL career and their pursuits in music and entertainment. They shared with PEOPLE that the experiences and obstacles they faced over the years have only strengthened their bond.
The couple’s enduring commitment to each other and their ability to adapt to life’s changes have solidified their relationship. As Terry put it, “Choosing to love each other year after year has proven to be the best decision we’ve ever made.” They believe that time has a way of revealing what truly matters and are grateful for the journey they’ve shared.
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